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Ask Sara: ‘Why Am we constantly a buddy or a Fling?’

Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Ask Sara: ‘Why Am we constantly a buddy or a Fling?’

Dear Sara:

Throughout my (unsuccessful) many years of looking for “the one”—or at the very least someone—there happens to be a pattern that is clear. It’s one of two situations: 1) I’m buddies with some guy and We have a crush, but he doesn’t reciprocate, therefore we end up being buddies. Or, 2) we have actually a fling and I also want to carry on it and have always been a little interested, but he’s not, end of story.

so that the essence is I never appear to cause any intimate emotions in some guy. that we always find yourself as either a buddy or perhaps a fling, but

i really do believe the main explanation we turn into a pal is simply because we was raised with two older brothers, and I’m type of familiar with the whole being-around-guys thing. And I also guess We have some alleged “male characteristics” in that we enjoy critical discussion, and I have always been maybe not afraid to own an impression. I’d additionally state that I’m self-confident, and I also could keep up with almost all of the dudes whenever it comes to consuming. My concept is dudes feel intimidated they still think I’m hot enough for a one-night stand by me, so the girlfriend-thing is not really an option, but seemingly.